Queen

Just let go of everything that pulls you down. If you feel like a Queen but under the control of someone or something, free yourself. I don't really know what a Queen does but basically to live your life on your own terms and rules gives you a control no one can share with you.

Don't hold on to things too tightly because you either lose them or you lose yourself in the process. Nobody wants that. Trust me, you don't. No one has the right to own your life more than you do. Own it!

You can be really sucky at doing things. Especially when you are pessimistic, whiny and petty. You depend on people when you really shouldn't. Where is the Queen in that? 

Okay maybe you don't want to be Queen, but you want to be treated normally. Why are they better than you.. What makes them loved.. If thats what you're thinking, let me give you a huge hug. 

To console yourself, you are treated differently, because you are different. Truth is what you contribute is often what you get in return. If you haven't been open in the way you converse with people, you are probably going to close all doors to a healthy surface level clean friendly relationship with people. Open in the sense where you listen.. And that, is something you suck at so much. Why so, let us save that for another day. As of now let us try to deal with this issue first.

Other ways of being open is when you leave your opinions to yourself and share at the appropriate time with the right amount of consideration for the receiver's feelings. You don't want to subtly hurt someone at first interaction. 

I think thats all I can think of for now. Last thing before I end of importantly is of course to be yourself at every step of the way whether it is going to be reserved, open or loud, you have to be yourself. ;)